Watching someone else who has things that you want and for some reason you cannot get – love, intimacy, money, business savvy, significance -    perform his or her orgasmic feats online will never help you get your rocks off.   This is a truism in both virtual sex or in guru-gawking.

The IM field is always in a state of flux because people are becoming more and more skeptical and only the slickest (but not necessarily the slimiest) marketers must adjust their approach to get you to pass over your credit card details.

They do it with scenario content videos which show many morsels of a million-dollar strategy.  They  give you one tit.  Then, in the next video, they give you the other.  They use the takeaway – the panty crack shot – which usually will cost you between $49 and $97.  And like I said in the last entry, that’s when the tease becomes a scam.  You find out the titillation was actually a dutch wife and that if you buy the upsell it will become like the real thing.

So here’s what I observe.  The big players are now inviting you into their virtual living room after you buy the scaled-down or stripped version of their real product.  And then they’ll give you everything they have previously produced and made millions selling as a bonus simply because it is stale or on the verge of being obsolete.

It is time to open our collective eyes.  The IM field is gimmicky and ephemeral.  What works today – once it is spread virally – will be in the marketing graveyard before the average bloke can implement it.  To believe that marketers want you to be rich like them in droves is, for the most part, unadulterated nonsense and naivety.

If they gave you their non-sexy, complete package with long-term coaching…then their businesses would be doomed.  The key to online sex or sexiness is to sell the illusion rather than the solution.

Case in point.  Yesterday Frank Kern gave a webinar -after much fanfare – that was supposedly a way of giving back to the community.  He made casual references while promoting it  to the rarity of giving such freebies to non-students.  The casual, laid-back Hippie style – which is superstar Frank’s trademark – insured a full house.  And he delivered the tits and the crack before revealing the $1997 price tag – the trade-in from the dutch wife free content.

Anik Singal did the same thing just a few days before him.  First he titillated with an under-$50, stripped-down version of a product, then banged you with the promise of a revealing webinar for new members which turned into his dutch wife trade-in for the nearly two-thousand-buck real lady.

It is not a software or a sexy-sounding idea that will transform a wannabe into a star.  Gimmicks can never trump low self-esteem and low self-confidence.

You don’t need to buy sex when you become sexy yourself.  That is why Napolean Hill in his masterpiece, “Think and Grow Rich” talks about sex transmutation emphatically:

“The men of greatest achievement are men with highly developed sex natures; men who have learned the art of sex transmutation.  A man may attain to great heights of financial or business achievement, solely by the driving force of sex energy.”

Putting aside his sexist expressions – a natural style in his time – one must realize that the biggest producers in business and life have or have developed a sexual appeal.  It may be their physical appearance, but more often in marketing it is the sexual appeal of their arguments to buy their thingy.  The thingy is just a vibrator still in the box.  They want to convince you else-wise.

Watch over the gateway to your mind.  Other people’s sexual allure is not your ticket to financial independence.  It will instead make you a slave to virtual sex, always one step removed from the real thing.